Having done quite a lot of deep inner work myself, I am finding that all the work boils down to these two things (which are actually one): 1) grab your inner child by the hand, love him, support him and never let him go. 2) Look into the mirror into your own eyes and love yourself. Your big dream is still alive and well in the little boy/girl waiting for you. Like me, you now have your own inner child by the hand and you will never let him/her go. The adult you now lifts the inner child up and encourages his dreams and desires. Sometimes my little boy rides on my shoulders. His self expression and his creativity are the things that matter most to me. I love and cherish my little boy. I love and cherish myself.